How to lose friends but gain a really cool wardrobe...

'America is my country and Paris is my hometown.'
Gertrude Stein


When firmly pressed for an answer to what country they would most like to be from i wholeheartedly believe that women answer, 'i'd like to be french.' Just like how there is a 75% chance that when people are asked to give a number they reply 7, it must be a scientific fact that women want to be french. It's the insouciance, the je ne sais quoi, the chic, the svelte figures and high heels, the sexy lovers, the art, the culture, the food. It's France, for goodness sake. 

I was reminded about this today because i saw the movie how to lose friends and alienate people today with my friends. This post is not about the movie, which was kind of fun, and interesting to watch considering my career aspirations. No, while watching the movie i was suddenly reminded of France. Not because it was set in france, or there was a french character... or even because they ate at a french restaurant or something. No, i was reminded of France because of Kirsten Dunst's character (Alison Olsen)'s wardrobe. 

Kirsten Dunst is actually one such woman who i'm sure would answer 'French' if she had to change her nationality. She is always running about in A.P.C, little wedge heels, classic separates in subdued chic tones and quirky accessories. She is one of the LA crowd who hasn't succumbed to the devilry of the tanning salon, and her ethereal pale skin and skinny phsyique can be seen poking out of denim cut offs and smock dresses a la Lou Doillon but with blonde hair. 

Her costumes in How To Lose Friends and Alienate People were almost like an extension of her off-duty wardrobe, and thus were endlessly intriguing and captivating on the big screen. She wore cute little shirts, pencil skirts, vests and dresses in black, white, pale blue and floral patterns. I particularly liked her first outfit at work, a black skirt suit with a white striped tee-shirt and plaited milkmaid hair. 

Recently i've been getting the feeling that my wardrobe has been maturing. Not in any obvious ways, but i've been drawn to a softer palette and in classic designs, the blazer, the full skirt, the bias-cut top, the long a-line silk skirt, the oversized shirts in block colours. Like Kirsten, both on and off the screen i feel myself sub-consciously, and, it must be said, consciously, emulating the effortlessly chic dressing style of that stereotypical Parisienne, the woman with perfect hair, striding down a street purposefully in a fitted skirt, crisp shirt and interesting jacket with super high heels. She may be dressed in something ostensibly uninteresting, but she wears it with such flair. Suddenly the pencil skirt takes on a whole new level of style.

I am guilty of unashamedly worshipping everything french in both my life, and this blog. One of my favourite designers is Vanessa Bruno, whom i love not for an ingenuity of design or innovativeness and creativity but rather because she manages to make the female form look so damn good. Ghesquiere is all well and good for your fashion needs, but i don't think i would look fabulous in one of his Balenciaga dresses with foam accentuated hips. But i do look great in a draped VB top in silk jersey that just hits my curves and makes them look like gifts from god, rather than gifts from too much chocolate and turkish delight. 

 A.P.C is another of those brands that is successful and much-loved not because it is fashion forward, but because it has distilled so perfectly the allure of the french ingenue and channelled the energy into its clothes. I do not own anything by A.P.C, but i have tried on several items and instantly felt transformed. They are well made, classically constructed and quirkily embellished clothes that made me feel, just for a second, that i was in paris, and gloriously fabulous. 

So what is the point of this post? It's just a mishmash bit of fluff about my favourite city in the world, and as i traverse the road to chic, compiling lists of things i need to reach a level of Parisienne perfection, how little things can make me feel like i'm making inroads at last. One of these things is buying beautiful french clothes. And another is seeing such classic costumes in the cinema. Kirsten Dunst and her fabulous outfits in the film were a little moment of joy for me. It was inspiring to see her looking so chic, in such simple clothes. Perhaps i will get there too, one day. 

Hope springs eternal, right?



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I love her plaited hair in the first photo.. such an inspiration. i may even try it tomorrow!
much love.
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The bold and the beautiful.

Just a little fun post, blogged by Bambola from Girl with the big brown eyes . The point is to bold the ones that you have done yourself to discover how 'bold' you actually are. the beautiful part, of course, does not really enter into this. I just thought it might be a good post title, a little puntastic haha. 

01. Bought everyone in the bar a drink
02. Swam with dolphins
03. Climbed a mountain
04. Taken a Ferrari for a test drive
05. Been inside the Great Pyramid - I REALLY WANT TO DO THIS!
06. Held a tarantula
07. Taken a candlelit bath with someone
08. Said "I love you" and meant it
09. Hugged a tree
10. Bungee jumped
11. Visited Paris
12. Watched a lightning storm at sea
13. Stayed up all night long and saw the sun rise - did that on sunday!
14. Seen the Northern Lights
15. Gone to a huge sports game
16. Walked the stairs to the top of the leaning Tower of Pisa
17. Grown and eaten your own vegetables
18. Touched an iceberg
19. Slept under the stars
20. Changed a baby's diaper
21. Taken a trip in a hot air balloon
22. Watched a meteor shower
23. Gotten drunk on champagne - this also happened on sunday haha!
24. Given more than you can afford to charity
25. Looked up at the night sky through a telescope
26. Had an uncontrollable giggling fit at the worst possible moment
27. Had a food fight
28. Bet on a winning horse
29. Asked out a stranger
30. Had a snowball fight
31. Screamed as loudly as you possibly can
32. Held a lamb
33. Seen a total eclipse
34. Ridden a roller coaster
35. Hit a home run
36. Danced like a fool and didn't care who was looking - did that on sunday too! :D
37. Adopted an accent for an entire day
38. Actually felt happy about your life, even for just a moment
39. Had two hard drives for your computer
40. Visited all 50 states (for Australia)
41. Taken care of someone who was drunk
42. Had amazing friends
43. Danced with a stranger in a foreign country
44. Watched whales
45. Stolen a sign
46. Backpacked in Europe 
47. Taken a road-trip
48. Gone rock climbing
49. Taken a midnight walk on the beach
50. Gone sky diving
51. Visited Ireland
52. Been heartbroken longer than you were actually in love
53. In a restaurant, sat at a stranger's table and had a meal with them
54. Visited Japan
55. Milked a cow
56. Alphabetized your CDs
57. Pretended to be a superhero
58. Sung karaoke
59. Lounged around in bed all day
60. Played touch football
61. Gone scuba diving 
62. Kissed in the rain
63. Played in the mud
64. Played in the rain
65. Gone to a drive-in theatre
66. Visited the Great Wall of China
67. Started a business
68. Fallen in love and not had your heart broken
69. Toured ancient sites - oooh i really really want to!
70. Taken a martial arts class
71. Played D&D for more than 6 hours straight
72. Gotten married
73. Been in a movie
74. Crashed a party
75. Gotten divorced
76. Gone without food for 5 days
77. Made cookies from scratch
78. Won first prize in a costume contest - as queen cleopatra for a friend's 18th!
79. Ridden a gondola in Venice - but it is one of my dreams!
80. Gotten a tattoo
81. Rafted the Snake River
82. Been on a television news program as an "expert"
83. Gotten flowers for no reason
84. Performed on stage
85. Been to Las Vegas
86. Recorded music
87. Eaten shark
88. Kissed on the first date
89. Gone to Thailand
90. Bought a house
91. Been in a combat zone
92. Buried one/both of your parents
93. Been on a cruise ship
94. Spoken more than one language fluently
95. Performed in Rocky Horror
96. Raised children
97. Followed your favorite band/singer on tour
98. Passed out cold
99. Taken an exotic bicycle tour in a foreign country
100. Picked up and moved to another city to just start over
101. Walked the Golden Gate Bridge
102. Sang loudly in the car, and didn't stop when you knew someone was looking
103. Had plastic surgery
104. Survived an accident that you shouldn't have survived
105. Wrote articles for a large publication - this one is my ultimate dream!
106. Lost over 100 pounds
107. Held someone while they were having a flashback
108. Piloted an airplane
109. Touched a stingray
110. Broken someone's heart
111. Helped an animal give birth
112. Won money on a TV game show
113. Broken a bone
114. Gone on a photo safari
115. Had a facial part pierced other than your ears - nose, thankfully it has closed over now.
116. Fired a rifle, shotgun, or pistol
117. Eaten mushrooms that were gathered in the wild
118. Ridden a horse
119. Had major surgery
120. Had a snake as a pet
121. Hiked to the bottom of the Grand Canyon
122. Slept for 30 hours in a 48 hour period
123. Visited more foreign countries than U.S. States
124. Visited all 7 continents
125. Taken a canoe trip that lasted more than 2 days
126. Eaten kangaroo meat
127. Eaten sushi
128. Had your picture in the newspaper
129. Changed someone's mind about something you care deeply about
130. Gone back to school
131. Parasailed
132. Touched a cockroach
133. Eaten fried green tomatoes
134. Read The Iliad and The Odyssey
135. Selected one "important" author who you missed in school, and read
136. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
137. Skipped all your school reunions
138. Communicated with someone without sharing a common spoken language
139. Been elected to public office
140. Written your own computer language
141. Thought to yourself that you're living your dream
142. Had to put someone you love into hospice care
143. Built your own PC from parts
144. Sold your own artwork to someone who didn't know you
145. Had a booth at a street fair
146. Dyed your hair
147. Been a DJ
148. Shaved your head
149. Caused a car accident
150. Saved someone's life


So, what do you think? Bold? Beautiful? Both? Neither? 
I would love to hear some of the crazy things that you have all done!
much love.
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these girls are bold and beautiful, wouldn't you say? 
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